Thursday 30 August 2012

I am not a train spotter


I'll let you in on a secret...I love arriving early into New Street train station. I like to watch a plethora of lives unfold in front of me, to hear a myriad of languages and watch people of all ages be united for a brief moment by the one common denominator of needing to be somewhere.


A few days ago I witnessed a couple reunite after obviously being apart. It was such a beautiful moment to see. It reminded me of mine and Antonio's early stages and how New Street Train Station became a feature, irrevocably entwined in the fabric of our own personal story. In the beginning it was where we used to meet, I'd have to stave off a bellyful of butterflies in the hope I'd have composure (the facade of being cool lasted all of about half an hour). Spotting him in the crowd was akin to an extreme sport, the adrenaline of it left me breathless. 

New Street was also the station I returned to after Ethiopia. Antonio waited for me with flowers and I often wonder whether other people there who saw us perhaps touched by our reuniting?
 It breaks my heart to think of that beautiful fragile moment, of our naivety for the difficulties  which lay ahead of what we'd endure in those first few rocky months of me adjusting to being back in England. 

Nowadays we meet there after work and again I have an ulterior motive for arriving early (other thank being out of work)! I love the three seconds before Antonio spots me, where I'm able to admire him from afar and appreicate what a handsome man he is. I know I'm biased but he stands out in a crowd and after almost a year together the moment we lock eyes still makes, (to quote that gawd awful book women are reading currently)

"My inner Goddess do the salsa with samba moves..."

This post which started about trains has become something of an ode to relationships. I feel in many ways my (almost) year with Ant has been such a steep learning curve. I finally feel like a woman who knows herself and what she wants out of life and that happens to be 6ft black man who has a penchant for bright clothes and who talks too much about coding ;P 

Antonio doing blue steel
And in other news. 

I have two strange aims this week:

1) To go to Birmingham Dogs Home. I know this exercise seems pointless as I am poor (so to speak) and without a house of my own but I'm a firm believer in visualizing your future in order to make it happen. I want to go to a rescue center, see lots of dogs and begin making it possible to actually rescue one. You've got to start somewhere....

 2)I want to get two pets rats and name them Endeeer and Ishi! (Amharic names that only my Ethiopian friends will laugh at).

This is so wrong but so cute.
Joys of the Week.   
1) Keli my crazy Peruvian friend wrote to me from Norway where she's currently living. She is the kind of person who uses exclamation marks frequently and laughs in letters like this 'haaaaahahahahahahahaha' She is utterly, 100% AWESOME.
2) I spoke to a man who used to be homeless who literally made my day. He works in a vintage shop which raises funds for a homeless charity, the name of which is tattooed on his wrist. He reminded me that you should not fear anything and above to continue to hope. 

3) Free Reggae concerts near Bob Marley graffiti <3     



Wednesday 29 August 2012

This is a blog post about periods.

*Disclaimer For poor surfers who've stumbled across this site via magicseaweed I suggest not reading the following post. This is not about surfing and the use of red is no mere accident....


 

 
If I were perhaps a better writer I could use posts to discuss current affairs, argue about gender inequality, the state of the economy or maybe even give my opinion about the debates surrounding foreign aid. But instead like the title suggests, I'm going to discuss periods. As a journal masquerading as a surf blog I should probably make some tenuous link to surfing - to be consistent of course - so here you are...

*TENUOUS LINK* 
Much like the tide is governed by the moon, a woman's body works in cycles and much like a sea breaking against rock, if you agitate a menstruating woman you are likely to meet the same fate a surfer does when wiping out over rock. Injury and/or Death. 

I can assure you this is not going to be an anatomically correct monologue about the woes of being a fertile woman. I'm actually of the mindset that periods are a natural, wholesome part of being female. I will NOT however be having any period parties soon to celebrate the red flower blooming (you can put away the bongo drums and gypsy skirts)... 


 

Instead I'd like to discuss the impact it has on my ability to rationalize. Without fear of giving the male populous an excuse to be ignoramuses, (I dare you to say to a woman 'oh are you on your period darling?' see what happens....and if you missed that sarcasm I am imminently worried for you), I do however think my abilities to resolve issues are hampered by the changes occuring in my body. 
 I am woefully emotional, I become clumsy, I'm rampant and I also happen to be irritated by things that for the majority of a month have had little impact on me.

Don't get me started on what my beloved boyfriend has endured the last few days. Antonio is no Saint but he's had to have the patience of one to navigate through my hormone laden arguements 

"Its not what you said its how you said it. Ooooh Ryan Gosling! I need felafel. Hug me I feel vulnerable..."   



  PMS otherwise known as -

1. Pass My Shotgun
2. Psychotic Mood Shift
3. Perpetual Munching Spree
4. Puffy Mid-Section
5. Pimples May Surface
6. Provide Me with Sweets
7. People Make me Sick
8. Pardon My Sobbing
9. Pass My Sweatpants
10. Pissed off Mood Syndrome
11. Plainly; Men Suck
12. Pack My Stuff
13. Potential Murder Suspect

- should be dealt with in the following ways:

FOR MEN: Give a woman a wide berth when she is near menstruation. If impossible to avoid be tolerant, don't take anything personally and if she's really unbearable console yourself with the fact that after 5-7 days her baby making hormones will kick in again and she'll be rampant (or at least back to normal).

FOR WOMEN: Succumb to the madness, wear THOSE pajamas, allow a little comfort eating and do anything that makes you feel better. 

I find romantic films or shark documentaries work quite well...

Now my promise to you. I will not discuss periods ever again. EVER. 

Toodle Pip
 













Monday 27 August 2012

Fifty Shades of Blue


Forgive me for exploiting a rather popular title, I just thought it would grab your attention more than if I just wrote 'Blue.'
Aside from relating to sea (and this is after all a surf blog of sorts) blue has been a theme for the books and movies I've watched recently.

This is by no means a current review as most of these movies/book have been out years. To me their date is irrelevant they are just great stories about people who you'll identify with.
I whole heartedly recommend you read/watch all.

THE BOOK


The Blue Sweater by Jacqueline Novogratz

The Blue Sweater is a book of hope written by a practical realist who won't hear 'no' for an answer...

Jacqueline Novogratz is a force to be reckoned with. She started out as a successful international banker on Wall Street who gave it all up to spend her life on a quest to understand global poverty and how to overcome it. After years spent in Rwanda and various other developing countries she started the Acumen fund which empowers poor people through encouraging entrepreneurship, giving them the resources to change their own problems.
Two words. READ IT!

THE FILMS

A Patch of Blue


This is my all time favourite film. EVER. Made in 1965 it stars the sublime Sydney Poitier as Gordon and the intriguing Shelley Winters as Selena. Selena is a disadvantaged blind girl living in an abusive home, her respite is when her alcoholic Grandfather takes her to the park where she sits all day alone under a tree. Whilst there she befriends Gordon a black man who becomes determined to help her out of her impoverished and abusive home life.


The musical score, black and white cinematography and the powerful acting makes this an all round beautiful 105 minutes - life you'll enrich whilst watching this film....

Blue Valentine


Starring Michelle Williams and Ryan Gosling this film makes you uncomfortable. Its kind of a romance, kind of a drama and all in all makes you exasperated with the characters. The fact that it illicits such a reaction out of you suggests its a pretty powerful film.


Antonio and I watched this together and ended up having a big discussion about it afterwards - it gets under your skin. I've always kind of liked Michelle Willams for being a bit of an indie darling, I've liked all of her films I've seen her in and again she proves herself in this film. Ryan Gosling's character pulls at your heart and seeing him with a receding hairline helps you appreciate that he's actually a really good actor (not just a pretty face). Watch this film!



Rory O'Shea was here...


Filmed in Ireland 'Rory O'Shea was here' stars James Mcavoy, Romola Garai and Steven Robertson. The story revolves around two disabled young men who strive for emotional and physical independence in defiance of 'protective' institutional living and societies attitudes towards disabilities. This film challenges everything you think you know and feel about people living with disabilities and should be watched precisely for this point. It is hard not to fall in love with the characters and I defy anyone not to get a little emotional watching it...




Crybaby



You wonder throughout this film why on earth you are watching it but then all of a sudden the credits roll and you realise you've kept it on. There's cheesy songs, strange characters and lines that'll make you cringe but somehow this doesn't put you off. Apparently its Johnny Depp's break out role and everything about it suggests Johnny was heading towards a Tim Burton hook up. Its wacky, zany and makes no sense but I can bet you'll laugh and maybe even enjoy it.




For nonsensical fun which will make you question everything that you think you know about yourself - watch this film!!

*also stars a very young Riki Lake!

Well with the weather being so unpredictable maybe some back up plans to outdoor ones will be just the ticket. Consider these films/book your backup!

I'd love to hear your thoughts and opinions so let me know what you think :)

Peace, good karma and all that jazz

Sophia

x



Tuesday 21 August 2012

! AFRICA !



It starts as an itch in the tips of my fingers, a subtle restlessness that creeps up on me like a thirst and then suddenly its palpable. This feeling no yearning overcomes me, like a bell going off inside of me. Africa she is calling.

Like the volcano, Africa can stun you in an instant. It can throw floods and drought and disease at you, sometimes all at the same time. In the next moment, it will tease you with its magnificent beauty, so even if you dont forget, you can find a way to forgive. Ultimately it keeps you coming back for more.

- The Blue Sweater, Jacqueline Novogratz

Its been 4 months since I returned from Ethiopia and though completely different to my West African experiences it was still Africa, the chaos, community, corruption and kindness of the continent that continues to fascinate me.

At the moment I'm reading a wonderful book by Jacqueline Novogratz a former International banker who ended up devoting her life to tackling global poverty. I admire her immensely for the brutal honesty she uses to describe her experiences in Africa. As much as it is a continent filled with smiling faces, community and vibrant culture it has its ugly sides. Jacqueline also tackles the issues of corruption and addresses the problems of foreign aid.

Poverty won't allow him to lift his head up; dignity won't allow him to bow it down.
- Madagasy Proverb

Below is an inspiring video which encapsulates the energy of Africa and why I'll dedicate my life to its people,
(ultimately learning some things about myself I'm sure).


Before thinking globally I believe its important to make roots in your own community soil, as knowing ourselves is an important tool to possess in the toolkit of life. I'm ready to equip myself with the skills and heart I'm going to need to embark on my African journey. A Masters in Development may be little more than a year away but already I'm hungry to learn and put it into an African context. I am enjoying every stage of this process from my internship, to my lascvious dreaming and everything else in between.

So forever and always;
To Africa with love

x

Monday 13 August 2012

SAM BLEAKLEY INTERVIEW!

Sam Bleakley is one of those people you'd feel immensely jealous of if he wasn't such an all round nice guy.
 Aside from being a pro surfer and travelling the world, he also manages to be a family guy with strong ties to his native Cornwall.
It has been an absolute pleasure to interview him and I consider it a real privilege to understand a little more about his fascinating life. You'll therefore have to forgive me if I have failed to condense this interview it was all so interesting!

But hey don't take my word for it he says it so much better himself...


  1. If you were given only a minute to explain who you are and what you do, what would be the main points?

I’m a travel writer and professional surfer sponsored by Biomimetics Health UK and based with my family (daughter Lola and wife Sandy) above Gwenver beach in west Cornwall. I specialise in projects with photographer John Callahan and the surfEXPLORE team to off-the-beaten track coastlines – places where better understanding the culture and the landscape is as compelling to us as riding the waves (but these projects take a lot of hard work and research). I’ve published two surf travel books (illustrated by Callahan) – Surfing Tropical Beats and Surfing Brilliant Corners (Alison Hodge Publishers). I have also edited The Surfing Tribe: A History of Surfing in Britain. I’m now researching a part-time PhD in Travel Writing at University College Falmouth, and my interest in exploration and geography is currently leading into some work presenting travel films.

2.       As you are a professional sponsored surfer being new at it probably seems a long time ago but can you tell us how you first got into surfing and how long it took to feel like you were competent?

The ‘feeling’ of surfing is always compelling, and addictive, no matter what level you are at. We are all sharing the same priceless experiences of adrenaline, fear and fulfilment. I grew up with a beach family, so I was usually with my sisters and folks at Gwenver or Sennen in the summer, and Perranuthnoe in the winter. I started surfing aged 5 thanks to my Dad - Alan ‘Fuz’ Bleakley, who also grew up in Cornwall. An important step for surfing was spending 1987/88 in the USA because my dad did a University lecturing work exchange. We were based in Virginia on the east coast, but spent the summer visiting friends in California. I was eight years old and normally surfed with my dad pushing me into the waves. At San Onofre, I went solo, paddling out beyond the whitewater. Fellow Cornishman and close family friend, Paul Holmes, had loaned me a 6’ 0” channel-bottomed five-finned board shaped by Hawaiian Brian Bulkley. To me, a gangly kid, it was perfectly crafted and totally ‘magic’. Paul was the then editor of Surfer magazine (thus a big hero). He had an injured shoulder from a trip to Bali, and watched from the beach. Outback I remember the pungent smell of kelp and the local pelicans. I stroked into a set wave alone. It turned green, peaked, and as it broke I took off, angled and found trim. I rode its entire length, locked in the pocket. That wave was a defining moment. Paul gave me the board and I took it home to Cornwall in ‘88. It set me up for life. After that I real felt comfortable surfing, and from aged 9 onwards became a fanatic.
3.  You are the author of two books, the first being Surfing Brilliant Corners, which details extreme global surf travel. Can you tell us how the idea for such a project arose and what the steps were to making the idea into reality?

Surfing Brilliant Corners tracks my passion for surfing, geography and travel. It’s primarily a travel book, illustrated by John Callahan’s awesome photography. I work with John (and our surfEXPLORE team) frequently, and the book journeys from my roots in Cornwall, to studying at Cambridge University, to competing in Europe, through travel to Africa, the Caribbean, the Americas, Asia and beyond, from the living vodou of Haiti to a serene Buddhist oasis in communist China. Framing surfing through metaphors of jazz, the book celebrates genius bop pianist Thelonious Monk’s 1956 album Brilliant Corners. Monk’s album was famed for its outrageous, groundbreaking compositional originality, and I explore how talented surfers think like great jazz musicians (even if they don’t actually like jazz music), using invention, complex rhythm, timing and spontaneity to turn impossible wave scenarios into beautiful but challenging music. I wrote the book to inspire people to be open-minded, tolerant of change, and paint surf culture and literature in a more intellectual and challenging way. I touch upon many complex themes that I’ve since explored in my latest book, Surfing Tropical Beats.

4.       As you surf in areas of political unrest and poverty do you have any opinions about the effect of surf tourism on the local community?

In our surfEXPLORE work we never claim to conquer any surf zones, imperial style. And although we may be among the first groups to document surfing in certain areas, we cannot account for the many surf explorers who may have charted a coast without cameras or subsequent magazine features (and inspired the locals along the way). But surfEXPLORE has been a pioneer in many areas, such as part of southern China, Mauritania, Haiti, Algeria, South Korea, Kenya, Oman, the Philippines and southern Gabon. In both South Korea and Algeria nascent surf scenes already existed, but surfEXPLORE gave the local surfers evidence of the quality of their waves, and confidence to further establish their local surf culture sensitively. We try to promote strong environmental values so surf culture can be a voice to help protect threatened coastlines. Local surfers are a vital community along any coastline. They showcase not only a healthy lifestyle, but a crucial voice in coastal ecology. Often the places we visit are devoid of surfers. But where there is a surf scene we always attempt to interact in a mutually beneficial way – the message is about open-mindedness, tolerance and embrace of positive change.

We travelled to Liberia in 2006 just as the capital Monrovia had turned on its streetlights for the first time in fifteen years (after a bitter civil war). President Ellen Johnson-Sirleaf announced that this symbolized the country’s journey from darkness to illumination. The kids we met had, for years, either been toting guns or fleeing from their homes in fear of their lives. They had grown up knowing only civil war, and now have to adjust to a civil life. The psychological hurt was etched deep in the country’s psyche. We met up with a former UN employee called Dominic Johns who was keen to develop surf tourism at Roberstport, three hours away. There are five remarkable left pointbreaks here. The moment we arrived this was clearly a place that will benefit from sensitive surf tourism, to aid a country rising from the ashes. Those priceless waves offer a wonderful, renewable resource, in the development of eco-sensitive surf tourism. Dominic and others have since started to achieve that. Surfing here looks like a beautiful, singular alternative to war.

I arrived home from that Liberia trip deeply affected by what I had seen, and more, what I heard about the suffering, loss and human destruction brought about by the fighting. Child soldiers have grown up never knowing a peaceful existence, where hatred was more prominent than love, and now they are trying to make sense of a ‘normal’ life, rebuilding a culture. For weeks I dwelt upon stories I had been told, such as Robertsport continually changing hands among different warring factions, each one torturing, raping, then forcing kids to join the warlords. The local kids had lost friends in the conflict. Drunk on fermented sugar cane, they were given machine guns and ordered to fight without mercy. Some escaped to Monrovia, walking at night along the coast for weeks to avoid being kidnapped. This scenario would be replicated in other parts of Africa, particularly the Sudan. Some of the Robertsport kids then had to spend six months hiding in Monrovia to avoid the same fate under a different warlord. Here they heard about cannibalism – gunmen eating a victim’s heart in the search for courage; and children wearing wedding dresses into combat because they thought it made them invincible. When they finally returned home to Robertsport, and the war ended, surfing became their sanctuary, their escape. This is the purest example I have come across of how surfing can offer healing and hope. Nothing was certain in an unstable post-war climate, but among the uncertainty, these Robertsport locals had found identities – as surfers. Thanks to the publicity given to the Robertsport area in recent years from a variety of sources, the steady flow of surfing visitors has made it possible for locals like Alfred Lomax and Dominic Johns to make a modest living with accommodation, food and drinks for visiting surfers, something that was not possible before.

5.       Which destination has resonated the most with you and why?

I have developed a particular interest with West African culture, and the upbeat polyrhythmic music reflecting the ingenuity and charisma of the people in the face of hardships that would crush the pampered Westerner. A single off-the-beaten path trip to West Africa might pack more bone-shaking and head spinning moments into a few weeks than many will experience in a lifetime. But Haiti, in the Caribbean, is the most exhilarating and vibrant place I have ever been. You will witness a wonderful celebration of carnival, colour, resourcefulness and style in the face of great adversity in Haiti. Despite the hardships and disasters, there is no poverty of spirit in Haiti. I have written three chapters on Haiti in Surfing Tropical Beats (with Callahan’s mouth-watering photos) and recently presented a film with University College Falmouth to attempt to capture the spirit of Haiti. This will be free to view online soon.

6.       For the benefit of non surfers can you articulate what it is about surfing which attracted you to it and why it continues to be a driving force in your life?

Surfing is both an illness and a cure – an addiction and a lifesaver. Extreme travel is the same – a welcome but awkward infection. The ocean has knocked me senseless, torn ligaments, ruined my sinuses, reduced my spectrum of hearing, dragged me across infectious live coral reefs, held me down so I am close to drowning, and engineered a face-to-face encounter with a tiger shark. But such bruises generate a kind of wisdom, and they are suffered because the rewards of surfing are immense. Surfing has opened me up, split my skin, widened my horizons, and closed me down, because any obsession restricts your involvement in other aspects of life. The sea has focused my restless, complex personality and given me calm. Travel has permanently reddened my eyes, but layered experience upon experience in building character. Surfing has been my life practise – all other activities, including my academic and writing passions, have been built around it. At the same time, travelling has taught me that there is nothing more special in surfing than being a local, having a family, and that one should cherish home breaks, home life. I have never tired of the vaulting granite cliffs at Gwenver in west Penwith, the bright skirt of sand, the changing seasons, and the familiar faces that keep me sane, acting as an anchor.


7.       You seem to prefer riding a long board (judging from your photos so please correct me if I’m wrong), what is it about long board riding which appeals to you more than a short board?

I’m known for my longboarding, and it’s perhaps the board type which suites my style best (because I can focus on fusing noseriding, footwork and flow), but I like to ride everything. I don’t like to pigeon hole board types or approaches – the boundaries are so blurred now that it’s easier to think it terms of flow and style. Throughout my whole surfing life I’ve been interested in so many board types, and have explored everything from logs to bonzers to quads to eggs way before these boards became part of the ‘retro revival’. I love them all (and continue to ride them all), but I am most passionate about all-rounder boards that work in anything and everything. I’m most at home riding refined shapes that are well suited to the local beachbreaks and to the type of travel exploration work I do, where I need a strong, but lightweight versatile longboard. I’m really interested in flow and timing. I like to ride boards that smooth out edges and angles with interconnected moves, weaved together with footwork, so the whole ride forms an elegant whole, from take-off to kick-out, not a set of isolated, disconnected moves. The beauty of style is not about standard or ability, it’s about aesthetics – crisp, cool styles always look stunning, in either a beginner, Kelly Slater or Miki Dora.

8.       Within your life who inspires you?

My family. And Gwenver beach continues to stun and humble. As far as travel writing goes, my personal favourite is the late Ryszard Kapuscinski - a sensational Polish journalist who spent most of his career in Africa. The way he articulated his encounters with ‘otherness’ through his working travel (for journalism) is a deep passion and source of inspiration for me. He wrote in Polish, but is now widely available in English. I am equally inspired by encounters with the ‘unknown’ or ‘otherness’. I’m also a huge fan of travel writing anthropologists Alfonso Lingis and Michael Taussig.

9.       If you were to give advice to aspiring or beginner surfers what would that be?

Chose functional surfboards that will make the experience safe and fun for the breaks you are surfing. Be humble and respectful to both the places you visit and the people you meet.
Listen, be open-minded and enjoy every second of your surfing life. It can be a roller coaster, but we are lucky for the ride, and like my late geography teacher Barry Blamey said, ‘you will never know how wonderful it is to stand on top of the highest mountains until you have been in the deepest valleys.’ A full surfing life is not purely hedonistic, nor driven by self-interest, but requires navigating the contours of difficulty, anxiety, suffering and loss. These experiences bring deeper understanding back into surfing, and empathy for others less fortunate. Be grateful. Be stoked.

10.       If you had to use only three words to describe your life what would they be?

Freethinking, colourful, balanced.

All photos courtesy JS Callahan, visit Sam at www.sambleakley.com